+ user->WriteNumeric(RPL_TARGNOTIFY, dest->nick, "has been informed that you messaged them.");
+ dest->WriteRemoteNumeric(RPL_UMODEGMSG, user->nick, InspIRCd::Format("%s@%s", user->ident.c_str(), user->GetDisplayedHost().c_str()), InspIRCd::Format("is messaging you, and you have umode +g. Use /ACCEPT +%s to allow.",